Friday, August 26, 2022

SAVING FACE


What does the expression, to save face, mean? The first answer that popped up in my search read: to retain respect and avoid humiliation.  Face is further described online as "a combination of social standing, reputation, influence, dignity, and honor. Causing someone to lose face lowers them in the eyes of their peers. But saving face or building face raises self-worth—obviously a better outcome for everyone."

When we hear about losing face or saving face, we’re talking about a person’s value. It’s not about being right or wrong, but how you treat people. Nowadays, it's extremely rare to see someone honored, respected, or treated with dignity--especially if, God forbid, you have a different point of view! It is bewildering. 


Let me tell you a little story that led me to think about this. Last week, I tripped on the sidewalk and fell down pretty hard, breaking my knee. Strangely, we could see no obvious reason for it. I simply came to a thin line in the concrete and my right shoe stuck, while the rest of me kept going!   

 

The only thing that saved my face, literally, was the visor of the new ballcap on my head!   When I first saw it in a store window, I burst out laughing, so my husband bought it for me just two weeks earlier. 
Make Karen Great Again!


Isn't that interesting? We know politics has been painfully divisive, but my name's being trashed by a world of critics these days. So I wear it in good humor, after about two years of hearing, What a Karen! and, You're a Karen if... 

  

Of course, Karen was one of 10 most common American names in the baby-boom era. Now, along with redefining terms and telling us what we can and can’t say, I see this as another method of demeaning people with a different worldview. It seems to me that the same people who like to cancel culture, deny history, and tear down statues, seem to enjoy ridiculing people my age.  

 

So I wear the hat and smile. Yes, my name is Karen, but I won’t be silenced!  No college professor can shame me from my views. I won’t stop thinking and I won’t let them tell me what to think. I still believe in free speech, history, two genders in creation, common sense, and Biblical values. And I believe we should love one another, too! 

 

In the end, it's interesting to ponder, the same hat that physically saved my face, can also help to build my face, defined earlier as social standing, influence, dignity, and honor! I wear it proudly!

 


FOOT NOTE (pun intended)

 

I can’t help but go back to the fact that when I fell there was no visible reason for it. We turned around and scratched our heads. No sticks or stones broke my bones! (Yes, my knee was actually fractured, though I didn't know it until 5 days later.) And as I mentioned earlier, we saw nothing but a thin gray line in the concrete. 

Just like today, there’s no apparent reason for the things that are tearing us apart and causing us to fall from peace. We have simply crossed the line. We may not know the full impact for a long time.   


Now, what's on the other side of this line, America?  It might cost us dearly, but we need to keep walking and we need to keep talking. Heaven help us, may we never lose our voice.

 



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Friday, August 02, 2019

WHAT DO YOU PROFIT IF YOU LOSE YOUR SOUL?

For what shall it profit a man, 
if he gains the whole world, 
and loses his own soul? 
Mark 8:36

When I saw this verse this morning, it took me back to the campus of Babson College where I worked as assistant to the Dean after we returned to the States. 

I remember Wellesley for its prestige and wealth, where winding avenues wrap around glamorous brick mansions and European Tudor homes with manicured lawns. Classy restaurants and pricey shops dot the curbs lined with luscious floral arrangements, and elegant swans grace the pond beside town hall. 

In this prestigious community, 12 miles west of Boston, it costs nearly $70,000 to become a member at the country club, not including monthly dues of $1000, plus the green fees to play golf! Combined with the hefty prices to eat there, it's safe to assume, members are dropping well over $100k a year.  (By way of contrast, the country club near me in the burbs just sent a mailer today, inviting us to join for $49 per year, without green fees!) 

I only say this to set the stage for the story I want to share about the founder of the college, Roger W. Babson. This engineer from MIT authored more than 40 books, directed corporations, and even ran for president against Franklin Roosevelt in 1940.  He was inventive, industrious, and highly successful in the eyes of the world. 

He was also a man of faith and respectable standards. Some of his sayings were actually carved in stone as a lasting memorial to his practical wisdom. One such engraving reads, “If something goes wrong, don’t go with it.” 

In 1947, the college erected a large metal globe on campus, weighing 25 tons.  It stood about 30’ tall and represented Babson’s vision. For decades it was the largest rotating replica of the Earth in the world. 

I remember walking up to it in front of one of the attractive buildings on campus, and discovering an old wooden sign posted at its base with the words of Jesus:

For what shall it profit a man, 
if he gains the whole world, and loses his own soul? 
Mark 8:36

Standing there looking up, the globe seemed bright and alluring against the sky, but the humble wooden sign showed signs of aging and neglect down on the ground. The wood itself reminded me of the character of Christ, born in a manger, and of the wooden cross He bore on his own back for us all. Such a contrast to the shiny metal, like all that glitters in the world! 

Roger Babson posted this sign right there in front of the enormous spinning globe as a reminder to all who would pass by, that no matter what we acquire or what we pursue in this life, there is something greater to be considered. The words of Jesus whisper gently, Don’t lose your soul. 

True profit is eternal. This world offers a lot of glitter and gold, but that’s not what truly matters. It is only what we attain in wisdom that will matter when we reach our eternal home.  

I wish I took a picture of it, but I never did. I guess no one else did either. I scoured the Internet to no avail. Did we all just hurry by to work or class and make no effort to preserve it? During the years I worked there, it was sad to see the sign with these timeless words slowly rotting in New England’s hard cold winters. 

By way of contrast, the metal globe kept gleaming. Staff and students from over 100 nations viewed it as a message of inclusion, diversity, and an inspiration to dream of success. 

The rotting plank with Jesus’ words highlighted the fact that spiritual goals were not the priority in the minds of the leaders at the #1 business school in the country 22 years in a row. When the college voted to remove the old plank and not replace it, another message emerged.

One publication even redefined the purpose of that monument. "To reflect on Roger Babson’s original dream that the Globe would impress upon students an appreciation of the world as a whole.”  Without seeing Jesus' words of warning, they completely misconstrued Babson's original message. This was not the "original dream" at all!

Since then, they replaced the globe with a newer more authentic looking 3D image of the world at the cost of over $100,000. It was unveiled at the school’s centennial celebrations with great pomp and adulation. 


The eternal wisdom of the words of our Lord Yeshua weren’t missed.  Very few remember that the words were ever there. However, Babson grads continue to take the world by force, starting companies like Toyota, Home Depot, and Gerber Baby Foods,  amassing great fortunes. I can’t help but wonder how many of them will come to the end of the road and wish they had known the timeless words of the Messiah.

What good is it if you gain the whole world, but lose your soul?

The sign is long gone, but the words still stand. As Jesus said, not one tiny letter will pass away as long as heaven and earth remain! (Mt 5:18)  When we finish our time on this spinning globe, we will stand before Him. Hopefully, our souls will not be lost in the effort to gain what we cannot keep. 

Whether you live in prestigious communities or out in the burbs, I pray you will be fully welcomed as a member, not of some club, but of the  eternal Kingdom of the God of heaven and earth!

Keep everything in perspective my friends. Life is more than physical things, and its value is more than all this world can offer. Amen?








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